Recovering After the Holidays: Winter Self-Care Tips

After the holidays, it’s common to feel drained as routines shift and winter brings shorter days and increased isolation. This time of year makes it especially important to prioritize both mental and physical recovery. To help support individuals during this time, Manning Regional Healthcare Center (MRHC) shares practical tips to aid in post-holiday recovery and winter self-care.

“The weather during this time of year does not help with mental health conditions. The days are shorter; it appears gloomier and colder outside,” said MRHC Mental Health Counselor Hollie Schechinger, LISW. “This causes people to spend more time isolated indoors and not communicate as much with their supports.”

Post-Holiday Recovery

The holiday season often comes with disrupted routines, social fatigue, and sleep changes. Along with heightened emotions, these factors can all take a toll on our mental health. MRHC encourages individuals to allow time for the mind and body to reset. Simple strategies include:

  • Soft Landing Week: Fewer appointments, slower mornings, and smaller errands.
  • Re-Establish Sleep Gradually: Adjust bedtime or wake time by 15–20 minutes.
  • Let Your Body Lead: Use helpful cues such as “pacing myself today” or “this is a transition period”.
  • Micro-Resting: Incorporate brief restorative breaks with a warm drink, gentle stretching, or quiet music.
  • Hydrate & Nourish: Support overall well-being with balanced meals and staying hydrated.
  • Reestablish a Routine: Choose a daily anchor like a morning coffee, a short walk, or a consistent mealtime.

Winter Self-Care

Practicing self-care during the winter months is essential, as it supports physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual well-being during a season marked by shorter days, colder temperatures, and post-holiday fatigue. Winter can bring low energy, mobility limitations, transportation barriers, increased isolation, pain or stiffness, emotional decline, and disrupted routines.

“During the winter months, hibernation looks like intentional rest that helps the mind and body heal, while isolation looks like withdrawing from the world because things feel too hard,” said Senior Life Solutions Therapist Maribeth Christensen, BSW, MA, MSW, LMSW, CADC. “If stepping back gives you comfort, that’s healthy, but if it deepens the feelings of sadness or hopelessness, it may be an indication to seek support.”

These factors can make self-care feel difficult or even “selfish,” but it is not indulgence; it is necessary maintenance. MRHC’s practical, simple strategies can help make winter care more manageable:

  • Two-minute rule: Complete quick tasks such as stretching, opening curtains, or drinking water.
  • Comfort basket: Include items like cozy socks, a hot pack, lotion, tea, a puzzle, or a book for easy access.
  • Weather backup plan: When leaving home isn’t possible, choose alternatives such as a phone call or a short video chat to stay connected with friends and family.
  • Warmth rituals: A warm drink, a heated blanket, a warm bath, lotion on your hands, or sitting in a sunny window can promote relaxation.
  • Daily meaning check: Note one moment of comfort, gratitude, or connection each day.
  • Stay connected: Schedule weekly check-ins or attend community events when the weather allows.
  • Lower the bar: Keep expectations realistic. Small, consistent acts of care are most effective.

These small, steady practices help the body and mind stay regulated, grounded, and supported through the winter season. If feelings of sadness, anxiety, or stress persist and interfere with your daily routine, it is important to seek professional help. If you or a loved one is struggling, MRHC provides mental health services to support individuals of all ages:

Counseling Services in person or virtually for individuals 12 and older. Call (712) 655-2072 to schedule an appointment.

Play Therapy to support children five and older. Call (712) 655-2072 to schedule an appointment.

Senior Life Solutions for individuals 65+ struggling with anxiety, depression, or life transitions. Call (712) 655-8262.

The Recovery Center provides residential and outpatient treatment. Call (712) 655-2300 for help.

If you or someone you know is in immediate distress, contact the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or call or text 988 for confidential, 24/7 support.

Coping with the Winter Blues during the Holiday Season

The winter season can bring emotional challenges for many people, with some experiencing Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) while others face the stress and emotional toll of the holiday season. Manning Regional Healthcare Center (MRHC) aims to help individuals recognize and cope with both SAD and depression during the holidays.

Recognizing Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
SAD is a form of depression triggered by reduced sunlight. According to the American Psychiatric Association, its symptoms closely mirror those of depression, including:

  • Low mood and energy
  • Fatigue
  • Oversleeping or difficulty sleeping
  • Loss of interest in activities
  • Cravings for carbohydrates and subsequent weight gain

“Many of us have days that we don’t feel like ourselves, and sometimes the winter months can enhance those feelings,” said Janet Brus, RN, program director for Senior Life Solutions at MRHC. “Be aware of how you are feeling. If you normally get up and perform your daily activities and instead find yourself staying in bed longer, not getting dressed, or avoiding activities, you may be experiencing seasonal affective disorder.”

Brus recommends staying active, reading, maintaining a healthy diet, and seeking professional support if symptoms persist.

Understanding Holiday-Related Depression
While the holiday season is often filled with celebrations, emotional distress during this time is frequently linked to increased stress and elevated expectations. Some individuals may face grief, financial strain, loneliness, or pressure to “make the holidays perfect.”

“The holidays can be both joyful and emotionally challenging,” said MRHC Mental Health Therapist Tiffany Johnson, T-LMHC. “It’s important to use coping skills and lean on support to address difficult feelings before they get worse. The holidays are meant to bring us together and remind us of who we can trust.”

Practical Tips to Manage Holiday Stress and Depression
  • Set Realistic Expectations: Avoid pressure to create a perfect holiday. Focus on meaningful moments rather than perfection.
  • Maintain Routines: Stick to regular sleep, meals, and exercise routines, especially for children.
  • Establish Boundaries: Say no when needed to avoid burnout from over-commitment.
  • Engage in Self-Care: Dedicate time for relaxation and activities you enjoy.
  • Connect with Others: Combat loneliness by reaching out to friends, family, or support groups.
  • Manage Finances: Stick to a holiday budget and consider thoughtful, low-cost gifts.

While adults may typically feel the weight of the holiday stress, children can be affected too. Parents can support their child’s emotional well-being by keeping consistent routines, limiting screen time, and encouraging meaningful conversations.

“This is a great time to connect with your children and build a close relationship,” said MRHC Mental Health Therapist Hollie Schechinger, LISW. “Talk with your kids about their day during a fun activity where they can open up and not feel like they are being questioned. Most importantly, have fun with your kids!”

When to Seek Help
If feelings of sadness, anxiety, or stress persist and interfere with your daily routine, it is important to seek professional help. If you or your child is struggling with depression or anxiety, contact your primary care provider for an evaluation. MRHC also provides mental health services to support individuals of all ages:

Counseling Services in person or virtually for individuals 12 and older. Call (712) 655-2072 to schedule an appointment.

Play Therapy to support children five and older. Call (712) 655-2072 to schedule an appointment.

Senior Life Solutions for individuals 65+ struggling with anxiety, depression, or life transitions. Call (712) 655-8262.

The Recovery Center provides residential and outpatient treatment. Call (712) 655-2300 for help.

If you or someone you know is in immediate distress, contact the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or call or text 988 for confidential, 24/7 support.

Reverse those Winter Blues

Amy Hull, licensed therapist at MRHC for Senior Life Solutions

By: Amy Hull, LISW (Therapist with Senior Life Solutions) Amy Hull, licensed therapist at MRHC for Senior Life Solutions

As we continue into the long days of winter, I am reminded that so many of us face challenges: some because of the cloudy, cold, and grey days which trigger Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Others because they face depression year-round and find the absence of loved ones difficult while having to pillage through snow, ice and frigid cold to travel. In addition, we are also navigating the protocols and restrictions of COVID, feeling political unrest, and learning how to make socially sensitive changes so that all members of our nation feel that they are accepted and valued. Much of this causes confusion, uncertainty, and isolation (spiritually, emotionally, and physically) for all ages, from our developing youth to the mature members of our community.

Knowing the signs and symptoms of clinical depression is helpful so that you can seek additional help from your primary care physician or contact a therapist/psychiatrist to manage the need for psychotropic medications.

Clinical Depression includes five of the following symptoms:

  • Depressed mood most of the day, nearly every day
  • Fatigue
  • Difficulty concentrating or thinking
  • Feelings of worthlessness, helplessness, hopelessness, sadness, or numbness
  • Irritability
  • Reoccurring thoughts of death
  • Diminished interest in once pleasurable activities
  • Significant weight loss or overeating
  • Sleeping too much or too little

It is important to catch these symptoms early. If you are having at least two or three symptoms, ask for help immediately rather than trying to manage it alone and waiting. Seeking assistance early can prevent depression from progressing, and it can resolve the issue much quicker than if you allow the symptoms to become entrenched and multiply.

When faced with symptoms of depression, I encourage my patients to do the opposite of what depression is telling them. Feelings of depression often suggest that you should stay isolated, avoid socializing, eat more or less, sleep more, or avoid activities you once did. However, it is important that we connect with our friends and family using any means available including phone calls, Facetiming, sending care packages, or hand-written cards. One can’t help but feel good by engaging in activities that they once enjoyed, serving others through volunteer work, or simply helping a neighbor.

A few ways to counteract depression and sadness include helping others, exercising, interrupting or stopping negative thoughts, and getting fresh air and sunshine. These options will help you find the joy you once had both in activities and in interacting with others.